Random Acts of Kindness – Reaching Out to the Homeless

Greetings! And welcome to my little corner of the world. Thank you for spending your moments here with me.

The homeless. A big subject. And I feel there is a definite stigma to this whole thing. Similar to the stigma that follows Mental Illness. The stigma usually lives within the ignorant. The ones who sit and judge things that they haven’t taken the time to get beyond the lack of knowledge about. Without knowledge comes lack of empathy. Without empathy follows judgement. I don’t know a single person who chooses, or enjoys being mentally ill. It is a daily struggle, feeling alone, no answers to match the thousands of daily doubts and fears that come with.

Being homeless is no different. Who would want to live homeless? Sleeping on street corners and park benches. Being looked down upon, and being so hungry you hold up a cardboard sign on a street corner. I have heard statements such as:

They should work like the rest of us.

I won’t give them money, they will just use it on drugs.

They are just lazy.

People walk by, judging, elevating themselves as “better”. Better than what? Most of us are a paycheck or two or three away from being homeless ourselves. Add mental illness to the equation and you have many unmedicated, unsupported, poor, hungry, people literally living on the street. On the STREET. No where to shower, use a restroom, just rest their bodies. Rest their souls.

Nobody should live like that.

Now, none of us can save the world.. Fix the homeless catastrophe. Many believe if they can’t do something big, worthy, notable, well then……they just do nothing. I have always believed it takes many to do a little, as opposed to a few doing it all.

My mantra: Do what you can. With what you have. Where you are. So I have adopted this ideology into my daily life. No matter what town I’m in, what I’m doing, not being dependent on how much extra money I may or may not have. I can always do SOMETHING.

So here’s what I have started to do. My little contribution. May not make a difference to the masses But I know it has made a difference to the few. I collect things on sale and save it in a box. I get quart sized ziplock bags and fill them with some randomness, a few necessities, and a love note. Letting them know that someone cares. With a positive quote or whatever strikes me at the time.

Here’s an example of things I put in my bags I hand out to strangers. And I have to admit, some have become friends. I have learned more from the homeless people I have hung out with than I could ever impart. It has been a life habit I am thankful I have adopted. It’s just my little contribution.

I have bought a loaf of bread, sandwich meat and cheese, turned it into sandwiches, fruit and small bags of chips and hung out at a homeless park. The pureness of heart and the absolute gratitude by sharing simple sandwiches is overwhelming. To hear the stories, of how they got to where they are, their hopes and dreams are not too different than mine. To be accepted, loved, and to feel safe. And I have never done this where I wasn’t offered to share what little they had. One time I got a rock. A rock! But it was a “lucky rock” that a man had carried in his pocket for over a year. I still have it. Precious to me.

I lived up in Ukiah California, which is about an hour and a half north of San Francisco in a hotel. As I walked to my car, I noticed a man with a bike, rummaging through the trash. Heartbreaking. I went to a restaurant across the road and bought two breakfasts to go and two coffees. I went back to the parking lot, and he was still at it. I walked over to him and said hello. He immediately looked at me, with shame, and guilt hidden behind his eyes. I introduced myself and shook his hand. I asked him what he was looking for. He just said two words. “I’m hungry”. I invited him to come sit on this small wall with me that was in this parking lot. I offered him breakfast and we sat there for over an hour. We ate, we shared stories, we laughed, we cried as well.

I’m nothing special. I struggle just like we all do. I have a busy job, and I’m alone most of the time. But I do what I can. With what I have. Where I am. And I’m telling you, it makes a difference. He probably gave me more than I gave to him that day.
His name was Elias. And he is my friend.

I am hoping that if your eyes have reached this far, that you can collect a pearl to take away with you. Perhaps something to think about.

Until next time……..be kind……always,

Polley93

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24 thoughts on “Random Acts of Kindness – Reaching Out to the Homeless”

  1. This post really got to me. Absolutely inspiring. The kindness and compassion that you show is admirable. Thank you for sharing this and I hope it allows overs to see that they can make a difference.

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  2. You’re a wonderful example to all of us. A couple times a year we do something similar as a family. We use gallon size bags and fill them with socks, food, some hygiene items, along with a note wishing them well. We take them in the car and as we drive around running errands we hand them out, usually where someone is panhandling at a traffic light. My kids love putting the kits together. I wish I could say I do a lot more than that.

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    1. Like I always maintain, you do what you can. It takes a lot doing little things instead of the few doing it all. Kudos to you and what a wonderful thing to teach your children! We need more souls like you on our little planet!

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  3. Thanks for giving some good ideas to help the homeless. I will start doing the same you do, make up some plastic baggies with food and toiletry and stuff. You are very inspirational! It is so easy to say “I won’t solve anything” as opposed to “I can make a difference to this person at this moment!”

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  4. So thoughtful of you to do this. We need such small acts of kindness. I am so inspired by your post. These little gestures matter because these are so in the moment, these are nothing grand but simple things that brings some joy, a little smile to someone’s face.

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  5. We are here for all of us. All we need to make the world a better place is just a little act of kindness, and love. God bless you, Polley. And thank you from my heart for this inspirational post.

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  6. This is honestly so lovely and inspiring and the world would be a much better place if everyone was like you. I really think this is a great idea and must make the world of difference to the people you help. I hope this post gets the love and attention it deserves ☺️

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  7. Really like this post! I used to have a bad attitude towards homeless people but I very suddenly ended up with out a roof over my head and I was fortunate enough to have places to say (8 different beds in 2 weeks) and my partner and I had enough savings that we were able to rent so only went 2 months without somewhere to live. It put it into perspective how easy is it to end up on the streets!

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  8. I actually feel really tearful after reading this! Over the weekend I bought a homeless guy a sandwich and biscuits and made him cry! I wasn’t expecting the reaction! I don’t do things like this often enough x Great words of wisdom lady x

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  9. Wow you are an amazing, kind person and this is such an inspirational read. You’re right – why shouldn’t we spend time to talk to those who have found themselves in this unfortunate position and get to know them, it’s so true that it can happen to anyone and it’s often nothing to do with addiction. Your story will stay with me and you’ve got a new blog follower from now on!
    Melis || http://www.melisliving.com

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  10. So beautiful and so inspiring. Thank you for sharing the selfless thing you do for others. Thank you so much, the world is better because people like you exist.

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    1. We are all capable of doing little things. A lot of little things end up causing change. Thank you so much for spending the time and visiting my little corner of the world! Much appreciated.

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  11. You are truly an inspiration and I’m so happy you are sharing yourself with the world! This post was very touching and demonstrates the power of one! Thank you for taking the time to share and for your endless kindness to others…xoxo

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  12. This is a lovely post and very inspiring. There are a few well known homeless men in my home town and I make an effort to talk to them, offer them a sandwich or a drink etc.

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